It is what it is
We’ve been here for three years now and have grown to enjoy this place we call home. We’ve made friends, found fun activities for the kids and come to love the slow pace of this fairly small and quiet town. We’re surrounded by incredible rugged mountains and our sunsets are unbelievable. As much as we like it we knew that we probably wouldn’t stay here for good as we would very much like to move closer to our families back east. We thought that it would be on our own terms though…..
As with many companies in the US right now my husband’s place of employment will be laying people off next week. There may even be more at the beginning of next year. There is so much uncertainty about what we would do, where would we go and how would we make ends meet. Long story short, my husband and I know that whatever happens we will make it work. We have no choice, but to make it work for us and our family. Sure things would be different and a bit unsettled if he were to be laid off, but it’s not necessarily a bad experience or even a good one, it’s just another experience and we’ll work through it.
We do our best to live moment to moment and plan when needed, but to worry about an unknown is a waste of our precious time. So when my husband arrives home this evening we’ll laugh, cook dinner, play with the kids and enjoy each other’s company. We don’t know exactly where we’ll be in a few months, but it will be what it will be and we’ll enjoy the ride!

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October 2nd, 2009 at 9:16 am
Monica…I wish I had your positive attitude. I keep trying but I have this pit in my stomach that just won’t go away.
Whatever happens….I’m so blessed to have you as a friend and I’ll always have fond memories of our time in Utah because of you and your family.
October 7th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
Monica, you will be somewhere over the rainbow! Happy and in love with your kids and your husband. It is about being together..that’s where home is.
At some point things will only get better. STay positive, be strong.
October 10th, 2009 at 5:53 am
Oh, I could just kick myself for not catching up on blogs more often lately. I’m so sorry to hear this. Your attitude, though, is simply inspiring. I pray that you both have peace through whatever may come your way.